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What Is the Wheel of Consent? And Why It’s About More Than Just Consent

What Is the Wheel of Consent? And Why It’s About More Than Just Consent

The Wheel of Consent is a practice of taking and receiving, giving and allowing. The reason I find it so powerful is that it breaks down an action in to who is doing it and who its for - and in doing ... ...more

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June 20, 20255 min read

Your Attachment Strategy in Love

Your Attachment Strategy in Love

Do you pull away when things get close—or cling tighter? This post breaks down the four main attachment strategies and why understanding yours can change the way you love, relate, and connect. #attach... ...more

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June 06, 20255 min read

Inviting a Reluctant Partner to Therapy

Inviting a Reluctant Partner to Therapy

When one partner is eager to seek help for a relationship and the other is hesitant, it can feel like a stalemate. The decision to come to therapy is always a choice. #Therapy #Relationships #Couplest... ...more

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May 12, 20253 min read

Housework and the Fair Play Game

Housework and the Fair Play Game

Are you and your partner playing fair when it comes to housework? Fair Play by Eve Rodsky offers a game-changing approach to dividing tasks, reducing stress, and strengthening your relationship. Here’... ...more

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March 02, 20251 min read

Differentiation in Relationships

Differentiation in Relationships

A close relationship is beautiful, but without differentiation, you risk losing yourself in your relationship. Are you truly close, or are you enmeshed? Here are 10 signs to help you tell the differen... ...more

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February 23, 20254 min read

Bouncing Back from Rejection

Bouncing Back from Rejection

Rejection isn’t a reflection of your worth. Learn how to handle it with confidence, quiet your inner critic, and stay open . How to reframe rejection as redirection. ...more

Rejection

February 21, 20252 min read

BLOG - THE POWER OF INTIMACY

What Is the Wheel of Consent? And Why It’s About More Than Just Consent

What Is the Wheel of Consent? And Why It’s About More Than Just Consent

The Wheel of Consent is a practice of taking and receiving, giving and allowing. The reason I find it so powerful is that it breaks down an action in to who is doing it and who its for - and in doing ... ...more

Main

June 20, 20255 min read

Your Attachment Strategy in Love

Your Attachment Strategy in Love

Do you pull away when things get close—or cling tighter? This post breaks down the four main attachment strategies and why understanding yours can change the way you love, relate, and connect. #attach... ...more

Main

June 06, 20255 min read

Inviting a Reluctant Partner to Therapy

Inviting a Reluctant Partner to Therapy

When one partner is eager to seek help for a relationship and the other is hesitant, it can feel like a stalemate. The decision to come to therapy is always a choice. #Therapy #Relationships #Couplest... ...more

Main

May 12, 20253 min read

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