Reconnect. Rekindle. Reignite.
Transform Your Relationship with a
Couples Therapy Intensive
Do you miss the deep emotional closeness and effortless sexual connection you had in the early days of your relationship?
Do you long to feel desired again?
Are you struggling with mismatched libidos, feeling like roommates instead of lovers, or avoiding difficult conversations about sex and intimacy?
A sexless relationship
You can go months with no sex.
It’s become taboo to talk about.
You know you need to address the elephant in the room - but how do you start?
Different levels of desire
One of you is continually feeling disappointed about the sexless state of your relationship.
One of you is continually feeling guilty for not being a better partner when it comes to sex.
Lack of 'Spark'
Since kids, or the passing of years you've become more like friends, there is no 'spark'. You can't remember feeling lustful or desirous.
You wish you could feel some passion - but's it fizzled out and you have no idea how to get it back.
Do you feel like your intimacy is heading in a downward spiral?
Clients come to me because they recognise they are stuck in a rut in the bedroom. They understand that if they don't prioritise finding better ways to connect both emotionally and physically they will end up as just good friends.
You hope things will improve, but they don’t. Weeks go by without talking, and then an argument erupts, leaving you both feeling hopeless.
You know that resolving bedroom issues is key to staying happy together. To break the deadlock, you need someone who understands couple dynamics and how to rebuild sexual intimacy.
Why a Therapy Intensive?
Traditional weekly therapy can be helpful, but for many busy professionals, it’s not enough to create real momentum.
A therapy intensive gives you:
+ Dedicated time to deeply explore the root causes of your intimacy struggles.
+ Immediate insights so you can start reconnecting right away.
+ Practical strategies tailored to your relationship dynamics.
+ A faster path to change — without waiting months for progress.
Instead of 50-minute sessions spread out over weeks or months, a therapy intensive gives you the time, space, and expert guidance
to break the deadlock and start healing your intimacy—NOW.
I'm Nicola, and I help couples who have stopped talking about sex and want to address the elephant in the room.
In my intensives I am with you to take you through my tried and tested strategy to rebuilding intimacy, based on several years of experience working with couples and sex.
My Approach
My approach takes you through my framework of building trust, creating more intimacy, growing through curiosity, experimentation and exploring ways to deepen intimacy further.
INCREASE SAFETY AND TRUST
BUILD MORE INTIMACY
CULTIVATE DESIRE
What clients say about working with me
"Working with Nicola has been so beneficial for us as a couple. She creates a safe, relaxed environment to help us open up and explore difficult topics with care. Nicola manages to strike a perfect balance between sharing her extensive knowledge all while guiding us with a gentle and compassionate intuition. We never felt lectured to or heavily steered, but always felt firmly supported."
- E&P
"Thank you for providing us with the tools to move on and really enjoy our relationship again. You made us feel comfortable talking about very personal difficulties and also made the sessions fun and something we looked forward to. Your manner was always warm and considerate and we both felt really listened to."
- I&J
What does Rekindle Intimacy include?
Coaching With Nicola
Rekindle Intimacy includes 4 x 90 minute coaching calls on Zoom for you and your partner with Nicola.
These are not group calls - they are just for the two of you.
Video Lessons + Resources
Rekindle Intimacy is a three month program.
Month 1 we focus on creating more TRUST.
Month 2 we focus on building more INTIMACY.
Month 3 we focus on cultivating desire and on GROWTH.
Each month you alongside your live coaching session you also have access to video lessons, tutorials and guides to work through at home, in order that we can maximise the time on our calls.
Access to Nicola for Support
For the three months you'll have access to Nicola, you can send your questions either written or audio and get personal confidential responses.
READY TO FAST TRACK?
The next steps...
RESERVE YOUR SPOT
Register using the payment options below. You can choose to pay in full, or spread the payments over the three months. There are limited slots available, if you find that I'm fully booked, please join the wait list to be advised when a space comes available.
BOOK YOUR FIRST COACHING SESSION
After joining you will be directed to my calendar to book in. My client session days are Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday with a range of times available. I advise booking all four if you can, but you can begin by booking in the first one and then adding the others later.
BEGIN YOUR VIDEO LESSONS
On registering you will be send access details for the online course portal with your video lessons for Module One: TRUST. Get started right away in preparation for your first coaching session.
ONE DAY INTIMACY IGNITION INTENSIVE
with NICOLA
INVESTMENT £695
DEPOSIT
£100 non-refundable deposit
ON THE DAY
£595
5.5 hours of in-person therapy
Bespoke program for your issues
Lunch and refreshments provided
Private, peaceful location (in Somerset - or online can be arranged)
Frequently Asked Questions
Would couples therapy be better for us?
This program is for couples who have a solid relationship, and are not in regular conflict. If you are working through some big issues I will recommend couples therapy. I have limited spaces for ongoing therapy, and I am often fully booked. If in the event I am full, I will send you a list of my recommended couples therapists.
What is an intensive - in a nutshell?
An intensive is an extended therapy session (or series of sessions) designed to help you make significant progress in a short amount of time. Unlike traditional weekly therapy, my intensives are structured as a full-day, or multi-day. They are when issues that feel stuck and you want accelerated progress and suit those with busy schedules who struggle with weekly therapy appointments.
Do intensives have to be a full day?
Not necessarily. While full-day intensives are very practical and work really well, I also offer three-hour intensives. These are ideal if you prefer to space out the work over time or if committing to a full day is difficult. In our initial conversation, we can determine the best approach for your situation.
Do intensives need to be in person?
No, intensives can be done online. The structure is adjusted to allow for sufficient screen breaks, ensuring a balance between time on and off-screen. However, I primarily offer in-person intensives because, particularly when working with intimacy, I guide gentle touch-based processes. Being in the same room allows me to provide more personalized feedback and support. The in-person setting also creates a calm, relaxing space that encourages stepping out of everyday busyness and into a more receptive state—ideal for giving and receiving touch.
Are intensives only about intimacy?
No, though I specialize in intimacy intensives, I also offer relationship intensives on other topics. These can include:
Affair recovery – I recommend a two-day intensive for this, as the process is tender and requires dedicated time.
Navigating ethical non-monogamy – If you’re exploring or transitioning into a non-monogamous relationship and meet some challenges, an intensive can provide clarity and support. I have specialist training in this area.
Big life decisions – Such as whether to start a family or make other significant relationship shifts.
What's your refund policy?
If you are unable to attend, we will endeavour to reschedule. If that's not possible your deposit is non refundable.
Do you have marketing materials for different types of intensives?
I’m currently developing materials for affair recovery intensives and other topics. However, if you’re interested in scheduling an intensive now, I already have extensive experience in these areas and can tailor the work to your needs.
