Do you miss the deep emotional closeness and effortless sexual connection you had in the early days of your relationship?
Do you long to feel desired again?
Are you struggling with mismatched libidos, feeling like roommates instead of lovers, or avoiding difficult conversations about sex and intimacy?
You can go months with no sex.
It’s become taboo to talk about.
You know you need to address the elephant in the room - but how do you start?
One of you is continually feeling disappointed about the sexless state of your relationship.
One of you is continually feeling guilty for not being a better partner when it comes to sex.
Since kids, or the passing of years you've become more like friends, there is no 'spark'. You can't remember feeling lustful or desirous.
You wish you could feel some passion - but's it fizzled out and you have no idea how to get it back.
Clients come to me because they recognise they are stuck in a rut in the bedroom. They understand that if they don't prioritise finding better ways to connect both emotionally and physically they will end up as just good friends.
You hope things will improve, but they don’t. Weeks go by without talking, and then an argument erupts, leaving you both feeling hopeless.
You know that resolving bedroom issues is key to staying happy together. To break the deadlock, you need someone who understands couple dynamics and how to rebuild sexual intimacy.
Traditional weekly therapy can be helpful, but for many busy professionals, it’s not enough to create real momentum.
A therapy intensive gives you:
+ Dedicated time to deeply explore the root causes of your intimacy struggles.
+ Immediate insights so you can start reconnecting right away.
+ Practical strategies tailored to your relationship dynamics.
+ A faster path to change — without waiting months for progress.
Instead of 50-minute sessions spread out over weeks or months, a therapy intensive gives you the time, space, and expert guidance
to break the deadlock and start healing your intimacy—NOW.
Traditional weekly therapy can be helpful, but for many busy professionals, it’s not enough to create real momentum.
A therapy intensive gives you:
+ Dedicated time to deeply explore the root causes of your intimacy struggles.
+Immediate insights so you can start reconnecting right away.
+ Practical strategies tailored to your relationship dynamics.
+ A faster path to change — without waiting months for progress.
Instead of 50-minute sessions spread out over weeks or months, a therapy intensive gives you the time, space, and expert guidance
to break the deadlock and start healing your intimacy—NOW.
I'm Nicola, and I help couples who have stopped talking about sex and want to address the elephant in the room.
In my intensives I am with you to take you through my tried and tested strategy to rebuilding intimacy, based on several years of experience working with couples and sex.
My approach takes you through my framework of building trust, creating more intimacy, growing through curiosity, experimentation and exploring ways to deepen intimacy further.
"Working with Nicola has been so beneficial for us as a couple. She creates a safe, relaxed environment to help us open up and explore difficult topics with care. Nicola manages to strike a perfect balance between sharing her extensive knowledge all while guiding us with a gentle and compassionate intuition. We never felt lectured to or heavily steered, but always felt firmly supported."
Rekindle Intimacy includes 4 x 90 minute coaching calls on Zoom for you and your partner with Nicola.
These are not group calls - they are just for the two of you.
Rekindle Intimacy is a three month program.
Month 1 we focus on creating more TRUST.
Month 2 we focus on building more INTIMACY.
Month 3 we focus on cultivating desire and on GROWTH.
Each month you alongside your live coaching session you also have access to video lessons, tutorials and guides to work through at home, in order that we can maximise the time on our calls.
For the three months you'll have access to Nicola, you can send your questions either written or audio and get personal confidential responses.
Register using the payment options below. You can choose to pay in full, or spread the payments over the three months. There are limited slots available, if you find that I'm fully booked, please join the wait list to be advised when a space comes available.
After joining you will be directed to my calendar to book in. My client session days are Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday with a range of times available. I advise booking all four if you can, but you can begin by booking in the first one and then adding the others later.
On registering you will be send access details for the online course portal with your video lessons for Module One: TRUST. Get started right away in preparation for your first coaching session.
ONE DAY INTIMACY IGNITION INTENSIVE
with NICOLA
INVESTMENT £695
DEPOSIT
ON THE DAY
5.5 hours of in-person therapy - includes 2 x 30 minute individual sessions
Bespoke program for your issues
Lunch and refreshments provided
Private, peaceful location (in Somerset - or online can be arranged)
This program is for couples who have a solid relationship, and are not in regular conflict. If you are working through some big issues I recommend couples therapy. I am often full for ongoing couples therapy, but you can send me a message via my contact page and I will send you a list of my recommended couples therapists
Rapport with your therapist (me!) is really important. If you decide after the 1st session, that I'm not the right fit for you, it's possible to decide to end and I will refund you 75% for the final 3 sessions.